Alice, Jan Švankmajer, 1988
COFFEE AND CIGARETTES (2003) Directed by Jim Jarmusch
Children’s Games (1942)Dorothea Tanning
directed by Marc Caro & Jean-Pierre Jeunet (dir. of Amelie)
“First of all, love is a joint experience between two persons — but the fact that it is a joint experience does not mean that it is a similar experience to the two people involved. There is the lover and the beloved, but these two come from different countries. Often the beloved is only a stimulus for all the stored-up love which had lain quiet within the lover for a long time. And somehow every lover knows this. He feels in his soul that his love is a solitary thing.
It is for this reason that most of us would rather love than be loved. Almost everyone wants to be the lover. And the curt truth is that, in a deep secret way, the state of being beloved is intolerable.”